Method 1 of 3: Working on the Root Causes. Think about how you’re feeling right before you push someone away.
Method 2 of 3: Opening Up to Others. Let your comfort level be your guide. Look within yourself to decide how comfortable you feel opening up to someone.
Method 3 of 3: Avoiding Negative Behaviors. Avoid being clingy.
How to help someone who won’t help themselves?
How to Help People Who Won’t Help Themselves Listen to the person. Whatever the problem is, listen to what he has to say. Provide options. Initially, rather than suggest or demand that the person make specific changes, provide options. Support the person in her efforts to change.
How to stop pushing people away?
Are you rejecting help from people around you? Ask yourself: Has anyone offered to help you recently? Who were they? People close to you? Or even fellow co-workers?
Make an effort with your loved ones Who are the most important people in your life? Do you accept help from them?
Take a step back It’s important for anyone to take a step back and reflect on their emotions and behaviors.
Reflect on your current relationships When you do take time away for yourself,also take that time to reflect on who is important to you.
Consider your behavior Did the first half of this article help you realize why you may be pushing people away?
Learn to say yes more. You’ve probably in a routine of saying no to almost any request.
You don’t always need to avoid conflict Many people who actively push people away from their lives also tend to avoid conflict in the hope that they disappear.
Avoid being a people-pleaser Many people who avoid conflict are also people-pleasers.
Avoid pretending
Why do depressed people push away?
people with depression push others away due to their disrupted state of mind that needs to understand. because of sad mood. people with depression are genrally socially dysfunctional that’s why they avoid people and social gathring..